When
my wife, in our daily phone conversation, wished me, “Happy
dancing,” I thought she was overly optimistic because unlike the
last trip I was not bringing Lady Fortuna (board friend from Denmark)
to the lounge show as a dancing partner or meeting women from Calgary
as I did when I went to see the Nite Kings last Wednesday.
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I was late getting to the lounge playing my freeplay and a bit more in
video poker 10/7 DB. However there was on table with a rather strange
Anglo guy with a red tee shirt and a large V on it who gruffly
consented to letting me sit at the table he had. We had no
conversation. Not a great beginning, but a great seat.
Luckily
the gruff fellow left to kind of hover and move his arms in rather
strange ways to the music in other parts of the lounge.
He
was replaced by two Latino men who were very gracious and friendly,
thanking me for sharing. The waitress was very pretty and one fellow
introduced himself and his father and asked her questions in Spanish.
He introduced me as his “amigo.”
The
waitress then found them their own table.
Soon
another waitress was asking if I minded two sharing my seats and two
older men came to sit with me. The most talkative fellow spoke
better English than I speak Spanish, but still we were tossing a sort
of home made Spanglish all trying to share a bit of information above
the loud sounds of Claudine Castro and her band.
I
learned that the quieter fellow had lived in Spain for a while in
cities and towns I knew. The older fellow had just bought a house in
Vegas, so that the family could use it anytime they wanted.
I
suggested we combine our table with the table next to them where
their family was sitting and form a big circle. And soon a younger
fellow made the same suggestion, introducing me to all the men and
women. It was a mixed group from Cuba, Argentina. He was from
Guatemala.
Such
a gracious group!
The
more talkative older fellow had great white hair and he was fairly
tall and much better looking than I am. He started scoping out the
room for dance partners in a way that was not aggressive, but also
not as shy as I tend to be.
So
I joined him and together we invited women who were dancing together
to dance with us. In general, they loved it and we were often
dancing in a larger circle of people. Only one woman seemed
uncomfortable, a good looking Asian woman with hair below her waist.
My
wife has taught me that beautiful women get hit on so much that they
worry about such intrusions. So, as the dance progressed we shifted
to two older and chunky women who loved inviting us into the dance.
They were pretty funny.
After
the first dance they moved toward the tables, but I said, “Otra
vez” so we had another long bit of dancing.
I
did not follow what the woman was saying but she was cheering me on,
referring me to “Papi.”
It
was good fun. My Spanish is poor so I really don't follow very much,
but I totally enjoyed the experience and stayed until Claudine
finished, thanking everyone at the table.
I
find that these Latino groups are always very polite, gracious, and
inclusive. They never just share a table with taciturn acceptance of
a stranger, but welcome him in with conversation and story.
Mostly
locals frequent this spot and all seem to know one another.
Sometimes
that Latino welcome attitude is developed in the movies, and it seems
to be more Hollywood than real, but I find it true to Latino spirit,
and I am so grateful for that. I wish there were more Spanish closer
to where I live and that I could integrate into a community to keep
my small bit of the language current and enjoy the company of people
who treat the outsider like family in spite of not always being well
treated themselves.
On
my second trip to see Claudine Castro I was very early for this last
Latin lounge music of the trip. I used up my free buffet and three
glasses of free merlot won on the Webpass page of Eastside Cannery.
Rewards there are very skimpy and need to be redeemed within 7 days
of printing, but then they are good for 30 days.
I
gambled a bit, but stopped when I broke near even with 3-3-3-3 on
Double Bonus. That brought me out of another pit of loss. The poker
was fine, but I was not getting cards and the competition was all
very good locals, so I did not ever expect to get an edge.
I
took my last glass of wine into the lounge. I was an hour early, but
they play some interesting canned Latin music. It was good I got
there when I did because there were two birthdays being celebrated
that night and all night the room was packed without a seat to be
had.
I
sat in a great position at a table that only had two chairs. As
people came in, my extra chair disappeared to the table next to me
which filled up with people and more were on the way, so I suggested
we combine my table with theirs and look for more chairs. Once again
I was immediately part of the group.
I
had not expected to dance. I still had the remnants of blisters
formed in Red Rock canyon.
But
there were more women at this table than men, and one Puerto Rican
woman and I seemed to hit it off, so she wanted me to dance with her.
She was very good.
My
salsa is very bad, more like catsup than salsa.
She
was tolerant and liked that for some beats I could manage quite well.
So, we danced almost every dance for almost two hours.
This
finally did in my right foot that had started to bother me after
hiking Red Rock.
It
is better now but I was worried for a while and I wore my slippers in
casinos and limped through the rest of the trip.
My
dance partner looked more Scandinavian than Puerto Rican. She was
very attractive and reminded me that some people around my age keep
themselves very well fit. She loved to move and I could see how that
would help.
I
was also encouraged by the other women at the table who for a long
while just assumed I was a local.
Of
course, I was introduced all around and taken into the group just as
I had been a week before. The folks who attend this lounge act
regularly all know each other, but quickly, with just one
introduction, I was one of them.
What
a contrast with the Four Kings clique which can get irascible in the
search for seats, and I never feel included for any reason with that
inbred group.
For
a while we shared seats, some sitting while others danced. And then
some of our party drifted home and there were chairs enough and room.
There
is a small Cuban fellow who is about my age but in fine shape.
Facially, he is not attractive, but he has a winning personality and
is an excellent dancer. Also, he so obviously enjoys the fun of the
dance that we get taken in watching him.
There
is also a large Cuban who moves his whole body and catches the beat
and the music. He smiles all the while.
So,
with partners these two fellows are dancing it up next to each other
and every so often they switch partners in graceful patterns that fit
the dance. It was amazing to watch and fun.
When
Elizabeth and I go to swing dances, the faces are not so full of fun
and folks seem to put on an affectation reflecting their polished
dance steps.
Swing
was not meant to be so sober, but neo swing experiences seem to be.
It
was frustrating that it was so crowded, but none of the people
looking for seats or friends with space at their tables ever lost
their calm and polite demeanor.
I
had a really fine time.
I
caught the last 202 bus right there at the edge of the parking lot.
It leaves just after one AM. This week the driver who brought me up
took time to check the new book, read the confusing schedule and
interpret when the last bus was going to come.
I
really appreciated his attention to my anxiety. Very much in
contrast to the driver I asked for help last week although the woman
who actually drove the last bus was very helpful both weeks and she
remembered me from last week. I did not use up her break time on
this trip.
The
202 runs 24 hours but for the route after that bus we need to go to
the Nellis stop on the other side of Sam's Town. It is a bit of a
walk. The BHX could be taken to that stop and save the long walk. I
also noted that the BHX goes by long before that last 202 bus. If I
had missed the last 202, I'd have done that night to save a bit on my
worry of blisters.
As
it turned out the rest I gave my feet the day before seemed to have
given a chance for enough healing and the long and frantic dancing
did not seem to make them much worse.
It
took just 35 minutes at that time for the 202 to drop me at the Gold
Coast. It was longer going out just at rush hour, but never really
crowded. Both ways I sat in the front upstairs and enjoyed the view
of Flamingo.
It
was amazing to me that the ride coming home went so quickly.
2 comments:
Lovely Dewey! I can just picture it and for a moment I was right there with you, enjoying the vibe.
Hugs, Lady Fortuna (from Amsterdam in the Netherlands)
Well, maybe next year we'll be in Vegas at the same time. Hugs back.
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